Tuesday, January 3, 2012

Be Better...Not Bitter

What's the point of allowing past experiences to dictate your happiness. Approach confrontational situations with integrity and make the choice to take your life back! More often than not, we find ourselves in compromising situations that cause us to have to make a choice whether to be the victor or the victim. Either way, how you handle the situation is what makes the difference. How many times have we seen divorced couples still holding grudges against each other that are ages old and usually with children caught in the middle? Or friends, who have had  disagreements that go unresolved for years and results in a perfectly good friendship ending in turmoil? Regardless of what the circumstances are you have to learn to grow beyond the heartache and hardship in an effort to determine whether you are going to be BETTER or BITTER. Being "bitter" keeps you ruminating over past experiences and allowing them to control you, whereas if you make a conscious decision to be "better" you can forgive those who have wronged you and move on with your life. So, choose your choice...be better...not bitter!

You've just been "Thrown in the MixX"!

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  2. I refuse to be bitter because they blocks MY blessings! Now "Throw that in the MixX"

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